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Details such as the willingness of the woman or her parents are not clear.GOD had better plans and gave guidance on these matters in the Torah.GOD gave Israel the Sabbath to spend time with him (like the wedding chamber ) and gave the three pilgrimage feasts as wedding celebrations.
Her bridesmaids were also waiting and had to have oil ready for their lamps.
GOD offered Israel a formal, written marriage contract - the Torah. The contract was a blood covenant ( bride price ) in the blood of the Passover lamb, when GOD took Israel out of Egypt to be his own.
(Ex12 v13-14) Israel accepted this proposal, saying "All that the LORD has spoken we will do." (Ex19v7-8) The people drink a cup of wine at Passover for acceptance of GOD'S proposal.
To see if the proposal was accepted, the young man would pour a cup of wine for his beloved and wait to see if she drank it. If she drank the cup she would have accepted the proposal and they would be betrothed.
The young man would then give gifts to his beloved, and then take his leave.
The usual practice was for the young man to return to his father's house and build a honeymoon room there.