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You see, all of the questions I get from guys have two parts – the inner and the outer, and one is a matter of *beliefs*, and the other is a matter of knowing the correct WHAT to do – the ACTIONS.First, when most guys go out, they are thinking about GETTING women. You’re focused on your own needs and wants and not enough on GIVING to other people.It’s nice, however, to see a pickup artist thinking ahead, worrying not just about pickup, but about relationship management.That’s an area a lot of PUA’s don’t bother with, and it’s worth some attention, because many of us didn’t get into pickup because we wanted to lay a new girl every week, but rather because we wanted to create a lasting, more meaningful relationship with a higher quality of woman.
My big focus now is helping guys overcome their own self-limiting beliefs and master both the INNER game of attraction (confidence, self-esteem, etc.), as well as the skills – the OUTER game of attraction.
With all three of these in place, you’re unstoppable.
In my opinion, the biggest mistake is how most guys THINK when they go out.
Here’s what you’re going to learn in your bonus “Killer First Date” program: “ The smaller print is from Carlos Xuma himself.
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After all, the line between being alpha and being a jerk can be a fine one.