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This video I created explains in more detail how to correct your thinking effectively and make the fastest progress possible. As you practice this new type of thinking, it gradually replaces the old type and it builds your social confidence.
The last but possibly the most valuable thing to realize is that once you know how to stop being shy, it’s not enough. I’ve seen many people turn from shy to social: young and old, guys and girls.
When talking about how to stop being shy, I always emphasize how important it is to identify this inaccurate thinking. First, it gives you more motivation to go out, face your fears and be social, because you know your fears are not rational. You’re thinking is bugged: it generates distorted predictions and interpretations, which creates nervousness. Once you know what’s inaccurate in your thinking, you can start to practice thinking in a new, more constructive way.
Second, it enables you to correct the flaws in your thinking. You can begin to see your qualities, not just your flaws, see the things you do right, not just the things you do wrong, and not make a big deal out of doing something silly in front of others once in a while.
But every time I was in front of someone new - BOOM! And as I got older, that shyness started to get in the way of me meeting girls. I was attracted to a girl in my 1st grade class, believe it or not. I mean, there were dozens of cute girls around, but I couldn't seem to get anything started - even in high school - because I just didn't understand WHAT the heck I was supposed to be doing.
I knew a lot of girls at the time that I really didn't want to date, but these girls also told me they felt that sense of "I'm so confused... " Stay with me here, because I want to give you some information that will clear some of this up for you...
This is the recipe for the utmost success in overcoming your shyness.This is what enabled them to be more outgoing, make friends and fully enjoy social interactions.Watch this presentation I designed to find out the exact steps these people applied to eradicate their shyness.It's going to sound pretty harsh when I first say this, but if you think about it for a second, and open up your mind to the possibility, you're going to know what what I'm saying is true. After all, guys feel like girls play games with them when it comes to romance. And it all feels like some kind of mysterious conspiracy to keep us from being successful with the opposite sex, doesn't it? For a guy, it might be going up and introducing himself to a girl.For a girl, it might be getting her friend to introduce her to a guy. Some people call this being "indirect," but it's still a kind of game.